SisterMash

I heart autumn collections

2010-07-15T01:27:00.001-07:00

This month Vogue and Harpers Bazaar are showcasing the Autumn collections, all shown at the various spring fashion weeks. Now gloriously collated in styles and trends. And I am sooooooo looking forward to them dribbling down to the high street.

Some of the editors credit our 'era of austerity' as influencing the paired down looks created by the fashion houses. Minimalism, strong tailoring, pretty feminine fabrics and long lines. I love it ! The A/W 2010/2011 collections are so wearable, flattering but still modern.

A few of my favs -

Restraint - Stella McCartney and Pheobe Philo do this so well.

I love this look 'grunge glamour' - elegant but relaxed and loose. Effortless and oh so chic No cocktail dresses this year for Christmas parties !

For a masterclass,see Dries van noten.

I love this trouser shape and length. Very 70's and sharp but so flattering.

And bags - no slouchy leather. Really smart. This is an autumn styling I can get on board with !

And finally, after trying to find the perfect work portfolio / clutch, just like Miranda used to work, the designers get them out....

What do you think ?

Perfect company for lazing in the summer heat

2010-06-28T13:27:00.000-07:00

Why can't I be you

2010-06-10T12:53:00.000-07:00

It's difficult to call yourself a fan of Gaga, especially when she chops and changes so ruddy often, it's hard to keep up. I think I was a little too in love with the 'Telephone' package , so colourful and fun - whereas this new offering is just a little too much for me.

Is it just me or is this just some kind of video montage, an ode to Madonna through the ages?

So far I have noted Like a Prayer, Material Girl, Vogue, Express Yourself, Open up your heart, 4 Minutes and a smidge of Frozen. And that's all before even mentioning how Gaga's 'Alejandro' sounds like a cheap and nasty rip off of 'La Isla Bonita' (I mean who uses foreign accents in pop music anymore, I thought that ended with Geri's 'Mi Chico Latino'?) the beginning is a complete take off of Evita, and the gun bra...hello did some one say John Paul Gaultier?

Ok so yes I have followed Madonna through the ages, I may not like her as a person but god she's had some hits, and Gaga is a star in her own right but what are you doing woman? No, step away from the Madonna Greatest Hits Collection VHS that you have obviously been playing and just get on with being your own version of great.

Now for some Madonna, need you ask why?

xxxx

I'll get over you, I know I will (maybe)

2010-06-03T15:05:00.000-07:00

Well I went into Benefit in Convent Garden today to pick up for usual quarterly supply of foundation/concealer that I have been an avid fan of for the past 3 years (I can't believe I have been faithful for that many years) and to my horror they no longer sell it!
I knew this day would come, I was dumb struck, so much so I allowed the grumpy shop assistant to attempt to cover up my right ballooning shiner of a spot with 'industrial strength concealer' and then continue to talk for ten minutes solid about said unwanted face furniture - way to make me feel good about myself woman.
She told me to stop eating cheese as well as chocolate, told me my use of waterproof mascara was likely to make my lashes fall out and rounded off her pitch by telling me if I spent 60 quid I could get some free straighteners which tend to overheat and burn you......Yet I still walked out with a bagful of new products, guilty and confused.
I did make her laugh by telling her I was off to buy myself a lump of cheese, this felt like quite the reward.
I just want to know what to do, with so many products to choose from and so much variation in price, how on earth do I decide what to pick? I can't afford to do trials and am loathe to sit at more make-up counters whilst the assistant discusses the shine content of my skin.
I found out today my friend uses 3 layers of 3 different foundations to create her dewy glow - WHO HAS THE TIME FOR THAT?
That's it, I give up - I vow to go naked skinned, think of the cash I'll save!

Foundation - I'll get over you, I know I will.

xxx

Bootiful colours

2010-06-03T01:40:00.000-07:00

Design sponge is a fabulous daily blog and website with guest bloggers, sneek peaks into peoples houses, recipes, DIY and crafty projects, all sorts. It always has something interesting to look at. However, the new guest blogger in my mind has truly surpassed herself. Lauren Willhite from Color (US) Collective loves colours so much, that she collects images and splits up the colours and records the palettes. This is truly scrapbook heaven for me. Her actual blog is even better.

also, the sneek peak on Design Sponge from Karen Barlow today is so lovely.....

Ageless Style

2010-05-30T10:10:00.001-07:00

Vogues new issue is brilliant ! I have devoured it already. It's their annual 'ageless' issue and the whole thing is great with a special feature on the supermodel. This picture started the phenomenon;

and this video made the same girls into supermodels.

(there is a better clearer version of this on utube but no code to get it !!)

I love Naomi at the beginning of this video. oh it makes me want to do big hair and make up (I've got the big curves - ahem

And now for something a little different...

2010-05-26T15:00:00.000-07:00

I really want to see this!

When I saw it advertised at the beginning of 'Planet Terror', I along with many others thought it was an elaborate fake of a trailer but no no no, Machete is due out this summer - fantastic!

xxxx

It's show time !

2010-05-23T08:14:00.000-07:00

The biggest show (ok flower show) on earth has come to town and I've surprised myself how exciting it is. I was getting a bit blase about it this year, that was until I stepped on site to set up our humble trade stand at the Chelsea Flower Show.

It's a real priviledge to waltz in freely whilst the show is being set up. Its organised chaos and I was thrilled to be amongst it. There is a real buzz - sunny weather helps, plants everywhere and the fresh smell of compost ! This is what Chelsea looks like just 2 days before it opens !

As per, there are lots of purple iries (sure winner to flower at this time of year) and green foilage but I am giving you the offical sistermash Chelsea Preview - multi stemmed trees, purple foilage and a touch of the exotic can be seem right across the gardens. I always find it fascinating how designers are all influenced to come up with the similar themes year on year. It is the same in other creative disciplines - in the fashion industry you will oft see the same ideas and themes down the catwalk. How does this happen ? Sorry, I digress, finally, there was more lush abundance of frothy flowers like champagne bubbles across the gardens. I wonder whether this is a back lash against our asutere times. Previous years, gardens have felt more disciplined and restrinaed than what I saw this year. I am still thinking about this, will develop my ideas as the week progresses and will let you know.....

Its going to be a long week !

Flapper phase

2010-05-18T13:51:00.001-07:00

So I'm going to a 1920s themed cocktail party on Saturday so I have the usual dressing up conundrum of trying to find somewhere decent to wear that won't cost me the earth. My normal answer is to make something but I'm yet to find some decent, reasonable sewing shops here - I know its London so there must be, I just need to dedicate a day to doing a bit of a hunt down!

But anyway, as usual I digress, whilst hunting for inspiration for my costume I came across some gorgeous 1920s inspired photographs, the Jazz age just screams style doesn't it!

And a little something related that always brings a smile to my face! They're just having so much fun! Beautiful! Enjoy xxx

Nibble nation

2010-05-11T02:05:00.000-07:00

Apart from eating food, there is nothing I like more than reading about food. Nige as you know is my big love nosh hero. He actually like eating. Yes ! And when he writes you can taste what he is describing. dribble.

So, how pleased was I to find this blog - Recipe Rifle Esther is (newly) married to a food critic, and there are lovely insights into this world. The last few posts are about the wedding etc still good, but scroll back down a bit - she tries cooking all sorts of stuff (so you don't have to make the same mistakes !!) and writes in a very funny sharp witted way.

I really like this blog.

Tik tok

2010-05-07T12:21:00.000-07:00

Words escape me

2010-05-02T05:56:00.000-07:00

So the other day there was a girl in the office wearing the most amazing silk cropped trousers. I complimented her as you do and waited for that vital exchange, the insider's tip-off; where she nabbed the fabulous garb, frozen for fear she will utter that familiar and disappointing word - "Vintage". But all I got was a thank you.
I heard a colleague do exactly the same, and again just the thank you.
Am I stupid to assume we deserved answers, isn't it just the art of this kind of conversation; you give to receive and all that. Yes the compliment was deserved they were gorgeous trousers. But ladies can't be greedy, even if it was a charity shop bargain aren't we are all happy to revel in one woman's success and applaud the bargain, secretly noting the outlet for future hunting?
Perhaps the girl in question just wanted to keep the shopper's paradise to herself, I like to think she was perhaps embarrassed by their 'humble' beginnings, or was she simply being naive? Why wouldn't she tell me? Perhaps I should have just asked...lesson in subtlety learnt! So instead I intended to take it upon myself to scour the net to find a similar pair so I could dribble over the screen and hope you understand my pain - but there really should be a website for this kind of thing as my hunt has been most unproductive! This pair is the only thing that comes close...
Except they're Dries Van Norton, £355.00 and far, far too 'busy' to be the pair in question...god her tight lipped reaction has given me rage! I need a release...this will do.

xxxx

Calling up the promise land

2010-04-28T13:24:00.000-07:00

The BBC have certainly got some tricks up their sleeves as we leap into May, certainly for nostalgic cravers like moi! Their original mammoth drama project designed to span decades past was scrapped in favour of raking up the 80s - excellent!

So what's on the menu? Well there's something for everyone - A Boy George biopic featuring Gavin & Stacey's Matthew Horne as Culture Club's drummer and George's secret love interest; Jon Moss. A Welsh drama focused on life under Thatcher set with a backdrop of the Royal Wedding of Charles & Diana. And (yes there is more) an adaptation of Martin Amis' dark comedy Money with Shaun of the Dead's Nick Frost in the driving seat and Jerry Hall riding shotgun. Needless to say I'm excited, it's good to be reminded that we actually pay our licence fee for a reason; to get some decent gritty viewing rather than re-runs of Come Dine with me (my Sunday early evening guilty pleasure...I can literally waste hours).

So, rather neatly tying in...this week (and the week before and the...) I have been mostly listening to the Human League. My current fave was released in 1990, but still - the intro, all the hair... still reeks of the 80s. Enjoy xxx (even the boy knows all the words now, goddammit its catchy!)

Monday morning wiggle

2010-04-26T00:40:00.000-07:00

I have been busy. Yes siree. The important stuff has been overlooked (like blogging) and I have had to work. humph. The next 6 weeks are looking even more busy with Chelsea and big projects to see through and the boy is revising. So I thought we needed a bit of motivation this morning by the way of one my my fav choones.
Enjoy.

(Check out Stevies fingers dancing across the keyboard - amazing !)

oh and last night we watched 'Kick Ass' I was jubious I admit but it was brilliant !! Really good film, maybe one the best I have seen for a while !

Pull up to the bumper baby

2010-04-20T08:36:00.000-07:00

There was an excellent Grace Jones interview in the Guardian magazine on Saturday. I have such mixed feelings towards the woman, she is undoubtedly an icon on so many levels but I can't help feeling somewhat put off by her. The aggression and outright sexuality can be a little hard to swallow, so it was refreshing to read an interview where she came across as just a bit of an opinionated party girl. I guess you need to have balls to succeed in the music industry, to be renowned and talked about for so many decades, you need to have a strong sense of character and Grace Jones is more than just memorable. She reads like a bit of a whirlwind but now I feel better acquainted with her and equipped to really appreciate her style.
I also loved how the journalist tried to hint at a touch of animosity between Jones and Lady Gaga. Really, she just doesn't care and has always been famed for telling it how it is but I bet Gaga will be more than a little down heartened to read what Jones has got to say about her...

But now, moving away from the pop playground politics to a little musical starlet; Ellie Goulding. I thought she was pretty pants when I saw her banging a drum (like she really meant it) on the Brit Awards Nomination party but I have since developed quite a liking for her (lordy I am fickle). There is something resolutely chipmunk (as in the cartoon) about her voice and the album keeps reminding me of Fivestar's Silk & Steel, although I'm not entirely sure why. Dominic Burn off of the Chris Moyles show coyly described her as having an amazing voice, and I'd have to agree. I also like the way she says 'love' in this song.

xxxx

And you still don't think it is worth watching Glee ?

2010-04-15T01:12:00.001-07:00

Isn't spring supposed to make you feel energised ?

2010-04-14T01:17:00.000-07:00

I may have been trying to do too much, following my excitement of the days lengthening and warmer weather. The garden is not making the progress I wanted, I am getting little help from the boys - they mostly are doing this -

However, the house is looking nice, and we are getting some lovely light in, in the morning which is so nice after the dark winter.

All my new plants are bursting with growth and they are still sitting in pots !! My roses are bundled up together - I must get out there ! But when ?

So much to do ! So little time !

That's crazy

2010-04-13T12:40:00.000-07:00

Sister, so here's a picture of me making a cake, in my housewife florals but minus the heels! I don't know if it's something to do with the time of year or if it's my age but I am currently very distracted by those tasks I used to joke about and brush off as 'middle aged'. Sunday was gardening with the boy (Spring onions, salad leaves & beans planted) and today was perfecting a peppered Poussin with a creamy mushroom sauce - it was delicious thanks. And then there's obviously politics, The Stylist offered their next 'cut out and keep' installment of party politics today, this time with the Conservatives and I also came across Vote Match a painless quiz that compiles your views on current issues to decide which team you really cheer for - thankfully I unveiled no big surprise, but what will you come up with?
And what other better way to gain maturity and awareness than to beef up my knowledge of language. Yesterday's Dictionary.com word of the day was 'neologism' meaning a new word or expression. So how else am I to educate myself and witness a bit of neoglogism than to head to
Urban Dictionary and get on top of all the lingo spouted by those pretty young thangs. Fave new words & phrases include Stealth-call, Bootyism, Stall waiting and that's crazy...I guess you will just have to look them up to find out why!
xxxxxxx

Friday i'm in love

2010-04-09T05:52:00.000-07:00

A Friday Treat for you - the extended SATC 2 Trailer! Aidan is back? WTF! Oh Lordy I love Aidan, hunky as hell, EYE CANDY ALERT - what about Big, how is it all going to unfold, I just don't know, so many questions, I don't think I need to tell you that I'm excited! (Hence all the block capitals)....
So anyway, calmed myself down a little now, and from one hunk to another - Dhruv! Yes I sat down last night to 2 hours of glorious Food Heaven, and happily saw Drhuv sail to victory. And handily The Evening Standard satisfied my need for more by tying up the tale with a neat little bow in this article in yesterday's paper - I actually gasped out loud when I saw him on the cover, so proud!
Last night I not only entertained the idea of sampling new culinary delights, but inspired by Masterchef, me and the boy took the plunge and purchased some scallops! Wowee, I hear you say - well this is a big thing for me since the only fish I ever used to eat came in batter. Now I've notched up prawns and tuna steaks on my list of fishy loves, scallops surely will follow! Poached in a delicious milky Thai green curry (which I basically made...with the help of some paste) the first bite was a little fishy (the off-putter for me, silly as it may be) but there after there was just this lovely soft melt-in-the-mouth consistency that slipped down very well indeed. I'm all hyped to try more...perhaps this tomato & Chorizo accompaniment will be next on the list. The beautiful thing about them is they're so quick to cook.
Perfect and light for the sunshine, talking of sunshine I was walking along the Thames to this earlier. Doesn't sunshine just bring such joy and such over excitement, not quite ready for breaking out the sandals yet, but fingers crossed!

xxxxx

Good puppies

2010-04-08T05:02:00.000-07:00

Sister, I thought I would start to introduce you to my working world. After talking to you at the weekend, I realised the other day that you have no idea where I work or what I see everyday, so I am starting with these chaps........

awwwwwwhhhhhhh these are the doggies we work with every day. They are the pets of the lady that knows everything here (also known as 118-kate to the lads) - wizzie (aka wops / old tart / scrag bag / princess) is on the left and the boss lady, think about 8/9ish and Dash is on the right, only just turned 2 and still very much an overexcited puppy. He is also know as dish dash and stupid dog.

They are lovely and often come through to my desk for a treat / cuddle / sniff around - dash especially loves cuddling. They really make it here, when its stressful you can find them to do a trick for a treat or wrestle the rope knot thing with them, or go for a quick walk around the fields for fresh air. Which is what I am going to do now !

BTW they have got their paws on my knee as they do that for a treat !! awwwwwww

xxxxx

Drool dhruv

2010-04-08T03:44:00.000-07:00

no, not him, well I suppose he isn't unattractive, but so pleased Dhruv won !! He was certainly the best.

I know you loved Alex (and how I dislike him - I don't know what it is about his smuggy effusive smerky privileged clean posh personality I don't warm to) but he just wasn't that good on the day - I do agree that he did do some good stuff and is more left wing and interesting.

How do these people get to be so good ? All three guys were bright and exceptional talented people in their own rights, but they can cook brilliantly too ! I have always wondered what they can taste that I can't. I'd love to try those dishes they all made last night and see for myself what truly amazing food is like.

I suppose with all that free time now, I can get out into the garden and finish that digging and start the brick circle and planting !

hmmmmmmmmmmm I do like my grub. xxxxxxxxxx

Talk to me

2010-04-07T05:46:00.000-07:00

So last night was blackout night for me & the boy – just settling down to watch some Masterchef and suddenly, plans change! No disaster just get the candles from under the sink and stick Smooth FM on via the mobile – I’m strangely used to the dark since the new light sensor in the office photocopier room ignores me daily, despite repeatedly stamping my feet like some teenage astronaut.

So we avoided the art of conversation by turning instead to competition, an UNO grudge-match – after I’d secured my win and the electricity had returned I couldn’t help but wonder if this was a missed opportunity, the opportunity to just talk.

Don’t get me wrong, me and the boy are always talking, and often have the best most intense & impassioned conversations when we’re tipsy, really get our views off our chest. Last night, when I said “So what do we do now?” the boy replied “talk?” which we did for twenty minutes or so until card games grabbed our attention. I guess it’s that feeling of anticipation, a lack of concentration caused by the wait for power to return. But perhaps we should have taken this opportunity to just converse, the election date was announced yesterday, what a corker of a topic to throw out there. And Stylist magazine, in the run-up have started a weekly cut out and keep page (pg 33) documenting and explaining the key policies each party are promoting, and what the competition thinks. Most helpful for someone like me, who needs to see things in clear black and white and simple digestible language.

They've started with Labour, I could have shown this to the boy and thrown it open for discussion. But well, I’ve talked about politics with everyone and anyone lately, it’s apparently my new favourite conversation. Perhaps I’ve worn myself out on the subject and need to just sit back and switch on to what the media is spewing at me.

Anywho I digress, the point of this is that me & the boy have decided to make ‘blackout night’ a monthly affair (start off small), we won’t necessarily stick strictly to the candlelight, it gave us headaches but we will switch off our appliances and switch over to one another for conversation.

I think we’ll learn something from this new venture, if only how to better our previous UNO scores...

xxxx

Promise this will be the last obsessive post on quilts.......

2010-04-07T01:08:00.000-07:00

Sister,

Found this great website / shop / blog Spool which has so many inspring projects and images of stuff others have done. I particularly like this
It is so simple and fun - and really like the wavy quilting they have machined across the whole piece. hmmmm ideas

Pity they are in philadelphia.

I also like how they put up swatches of colours for inspiration and lots of patterns to use. oooohhhh doesn't it make you want to start a project ?
xxxx

Blazin' Squad

2010-04-05T13:53:00.000-07:00

Sister, hello! A long long time ago (probably in February?) you asked me to look into some blazers for you, and well I neglected my duties. Unfulfilled by Internet hunting, The Guardian's Fashion Statement came up trumps the other week with this excellent selection (let's just pretend that I did all the work...). I particularly like the pink Boden number.
And a soundtrack to wear it to you say? Well listening to Supergrass always puts a skip in my step, and check out the patchwork quilt, living the dream, but just how long will it take?

xxx

Quilty pleasures

2010-03-31T05:13:00.000-07:00

Sister (good title eh ? shame its not mine - knicked it from libertys latest installation...)
FINALLY I think I have seen what I would like to do as a quilt / wall hanging -

I have so many little scraps of fabric - many that are sentimental but random colours. I don't think I have the treasure chest of fabrics that would work together in a colourful traditional styled quilt but I think this one would be lovely and not look too crazy.
Found via Guardian and their article on the V&A quilting exhibition. This quilt is the work of a prisoner "Instead of smashing up your cell you can channel your aggression in a positive way. I usually spend about two to three hours an evening doing tapestry work. It helps you realise there are alternatives to committing crime”, says one of the inmates at HMP Albany

Makes you think - sewing is so medative and relaxing - you have to be calm and slow.

xxxxxx

mmmmmmm food mmmmm

2010-03-30T08:34:00.000-07:00

Sister,
I am really looking forward this weekend - 4 days off, seeing le famille, relaxing, chillaxing, maybe a bit of gardening (bit too wet and soggy so not sure it will happen - not because I am a woossy, its that the ground will be compacted and I'll only have to dig it over again. sorry, I digress. again) and COOKING !! OOhh I am looking forward to having the time to cook some nice stuff. So, ideas sister ? What do you fancy ? I will have a look at some recipes tonight and see what I have got in the archive (teehee) but I found these - what do you think ?

Roast Leg of Lamb stuffed with spinach and gremolata

Braised peas with leeks, little gem lettuces and mint

Cauliflower gratin

Hmmmm and for pudding ? Rhubarb and ginger crumble with vanilla custard and I think we'll need a massive cake for tea won't we ?

I also fancy something Italian for Saturday - and trying some new stuff. Any other ideas ? Not wedded to any of this but nice to keep to season eh ?

xxxxxxxxx

Does what it says on the tin

2010-03-29T14:19:00.001-07:00

This is creepy

I totally agree with your new year proposition sister, let's rally for the year to start now! I feel so revitalised and ready to go, January just leaves me feeling bloated, poor and a little depressed. But now I feel ready to take on the world!
A suitably cheesy number that certainly makes me jiggle my booty and feel like I can do anything...

xxxxx

Happy New Year !

2010-03-29T09:11:00.000-07:00

Sister, with the clocks going forward yesterday and the days lengthening, the start of "British Summer Time" heralds the new year to me, far more than cold dark yucky January 1st does. How can you make resolutions when you are depressed and tired ? No, January and February are hard enough as it is, without having to give up choc and excercise. Wrap up, watch movies, eat and sleep until the end of March I say. So, Happy New Year sister. Ah its worth waiting for after all. I have been out gardening/ clearing (more of that later), the buds swelling ready to pop with verdant leaves and pinky blossoms and writing lists of all the things I want to do this year. I feel energised and ready to go. I just can't wait for those lovely warm summer days. I was trying to find a song that was as optomistic, hopeful and excited as I feel, but nothing quite gets it, so I leave you with this - its an oldie that me and Macdaddy used to listen to loads driving around when we were carefree. It so reminds me of the summer.

Looking forward to lots of spring and summer adventures with you sister xxxxxxxxxxx

The bitch is back

2010-03-27T10:39:00.000-07:00

Sister, Nash is back and I'm not sure I'm that excited - it's not got the pop punch of 'Made of Bricks' it's just a little short of something. Also looking at her, well I was reminded a lot of Pamola Faith and that's no good thing, she's kind of snuck in and stolen the lime light in Nash's absence, yes Pamola is more styled and her music doesn't really match up to the outfits but I'm still left wondering is there room left for both of them?
I loved Nash, yes even after she told me (not personally), and the Norwich audience at her gig to shut up because she couldn't hear herself singing (don't make your music so ruddy catchy then!) but has she been away too long?
Yes this is the voice of fickle youth talking but well if you're gonna stay away that long, at least come back with another Foundations or Pumpkin Soup or Mariella, what is this Do ruddy dah aye? Lazy work Nash, and is it just me or does the video just look a bit 'done' - get over it love, you used to be my beacon; moody, stylish, eloquent (a beloved fan of annunciation), opinionated and ruddy fabulous...
This song is probably a grower, I will be raving about it in a couple of weeks

xxxxx

Ceci n'est pas un livre

2010-03-26T10:04:00.000-07:00

Sister,

I have been coverting one of these for years

from twentytwentyone (I love this shop, I could fill my house with this stuff. I digressed)

So imagine my glee when I discovered this DIY ?

I acutally think this is so much nicer and original.

Hmmm might not be digging after all this weekend.

Hope you have a good one sister. Really looking forward to seeing you next week.

I am going to leave you with some Friday cheese - you used to love these boys. And now I do too.

Probably not in the way they want me to.

You will be singing wo ooo wooo oooo hoooo all weekend now.

("Where I found love with uranus" dirty boys.)

Ruddy love you sister xxxxxxxxxxxx

We got Specs appeal

2010-03-23T06:35:00.000-07:00

Also found this lovely ode to specs on Jezebel - I love this website, last week they were having a debate on which cake rules over all competition. It's an American site so some of the references are lost on me (i.e they have a cake called 'a grasshopper') but still...

I hate it when people buy fake NHS style specs in an attempt to channel 'geek chic', as you can agree sister with your chum wanting to buy a pair. They certainly do look good on some people, but bless, not everyone! I remember when Mel B in the Spice Girls heyday was hailed as a trendsetter and icon for parading her poor eyesight and wearing her frames. But well, for people like us who simply can't ruddy see without them, it's a bit of a poke in the eye - yes we want to make this essential face furniture accessorise with our look but who can afford multiple frames and really at the end of the day I'd pick sight over blindness any day - its not really an option. This page celebrates ladies who wear their prescription with pride, whatever the weather!
xxx

Maniac

2010-03-23T06:14:00.000-07:00

Hey sister, so one of the perks of you not owning a TV is not having to waste precious moments watching the advert breaks, I am from the 'flick channels' school of thought, except this generally backfires as more often than not the decent channels go to break at the same time... Anywho, the ads are worth staying put for when they come like this...short but sweet, gotta love the butt spanking Spinning around Kylie style move! Oh and the shoes - good detail, do you think they are inspired by Bratz dolls?

xxx

oooooo

2010-03-22T07:03:00.000-07:00

Sister,

This is so you - trashy audrey chic. £15 tescos with 20% on website !

Lots of love xxxxxxxxxxx

Our Trace'

2010-03-21T06:37:00.000-07:00

Sister,

Been ridiculously busy at work. The only exciting thing that has happened is all my veg seeds have turned up today.

I am bereft of interesting things to blog about so I will ask you to look at this instead. It's Mark Lawson interviewing Tracey Emin. I am not sure when it was originally broadcast, it might not be new. I do love Tracey - I think she is fascinating and so honest, but so important - its an hour well spent ! Actually, all of the Mark's interviews are worth a watch.

Hope you had a fab day with the boy on Friday.

Lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Mad world

2010-03-17T14:45:00.000-07:00

Now I know everyone’s been talking about this but well it’s never too late to catch on, no I’m not talking about Glee! I managed to catch an episode of Mad Men last night, it was on pretty late but I’ve certainly been bitten! And sister it’s got a taste of Sex & the City with John Slattery starring, the politician that wanted to take a tinkle on Carrie (unfortunately I can’t get that out of my head watching him.)
Aside from the ladies’ wardrobe; bold prints and rich deep shades a plenty, there is predominantly something deliciously curt in the dialogue. Watching, I wasn’t sure if I was meant to look for meaning in the short crisp delivery, or accept it as a reflection of the times. But it certainly makes today’s TV look like we’re all cursed with verbal diarrhoea.

xxxx

Doity rats

2010-03-15T10:17:00.001-07:00

Scratchy noises in roof was keeping us awake, so operation 'sleep through the night' was sprung into action.
Whilst decanting nuggets of tasty rat poison in little feeding bowls the boy asked what we should do with the tub (budget bumper bucket bought as we are country folk). I said perhaps leave up in the loft if / when we need to put more out.
"but what if the rats eat the whole lot ?" I questioned, the boy answered "well more fool them".
Classic stuff.

glorious butter

2010-03-15T10:05:00.000-07:00

Sister,

Thank you for a fabulous saturday night with you and the boy. Yummy food you made. Following on from our 'topical debate' on lard - see this article (don't let the fact it is in the Daily Mail put you off)from lushious Clarissa Dickson Wright on the joys of butter. Her godfather made her promise on her 18th birthday that she would never eat margerine. "you have no idea what goes into it" he said. Please read it sister and show it to boy for comical disgust ! Butter good, marg bad. mmmmmmm just slathered a load on a hot cross bun. yum.

Hope your event went well and you home soon.

Love you sister xxxxxxxxxx

Telephone

2010-03-13T02:23:00.000-08:00

Sister, have you seen the new Gaga & Beyonce vid? One word - Immense! It's an epic 9 and a half mins, but definately worth a look-in.

The positives - It's dripping with a sickly sweet (literally) dark wit
There's revealing saucy threads a plenty (the boy commented "what's this sexy vid your watching" it's nice that Gaga is now seen as sexy as opposed to strange)
Beyonce looks like Naomi Campbell - totally dig the yellow eye liner & Betty Page bangs

The negatives
Awkward Thelma & Louise screen grabs
Virgin Mobile endorsement
Having to think about Gaga's fanny (at the beginning)
Gaga snogging a he/she, I think it was a woman, but still stop it, we know you're 'sexual'

I absolutely love it when acts make a real effort for their videos, and I think this has been what's turned it around for me with regards to Gaga. Her earlier work was arrogant and plain annoying. But now, I guess with money & success has come the opportunity to really express herself and pull out all the stops - I'm converted! And who'd have thought Gaga n Beyonce could be such an excellent mix, I love evil Beyonce! Totally covert the electric blue jewel embellished circus coat - my heart goes out to you!
Finally I know Gaga has lost weight what with all the touring and jiggling about, but there's just something about her, I can't put my finger on it - she just looks more stunning these days...Go go gaga!

Enjoy!

xxxxxx

oh sweet sweet liberty

2010-03-11T10:44:00.000-08:00

Sister,

Yes, love the 'Deacon look' (ref moss on Rimmel Ad!) - I am totally with you - very wearable but a new silhouette for the season. hmmm

Do you get the Liberty updates ? WELL ! Apparently Liberty's are doing a 'Quilty Pleasures' installation to coincide with the V&A Quilting exhibition. Gush. I am soooo looking forward to seeing that with you sister, and we should try and do it in the next month or so and pop into Liberty's to see this too. oh sis, I could post soooooo many pictures from these but have a look at the liberty blog for lovely things and

The Liberty Print archive. What I would do to grab a load of this !!

Isn't this fabulous stationary chic ?
And the new collection this season has so many swoonsome fabrics. I know I should be making blinds but I would love some cushions and aprons and little bags made from all sorts of new prints. These are my favorites tho'

And finally, on one of my fav blogs 'the beat that skipped my heart'
has posted a lovely find harmonie interiure that has the loveliest wall stickers and a new pretentious one for my wall........

Love you sister xxxxxxxxxx

Electricity - its pretty wearable

2010-03-10T13:24:00.000-08:00

So sister, have you been following Paris Fashion Week? I'm quite partial to Mr Giles Deacon's show;

there's a bit of that ol' Maggie Thatcher Chic, my bedrock. Gorgeous flashes of coral under quite simple shapes with a bit of a utility feel but the collections a real mix of influences - 60s styled bouffants, Jessica Stam apparently wearing electricity as a dress, there even appears to be some channelling of Lady Ga Ga with kinetics inspired head-gear all besides over sized furry pompom bags with massive eyes. Its interesting!
And the models, well it was such a who's who and yes my current model crush old big lips Wixson was there! Although unfortunately her 'walk' did make me giggle, she's a bit too robot for my liking (stick to the photos love) flailing arms a plenty - you can really tell who the professionals are, you just have to watch them walk. It's like Beyonce in Sweet Dreams all over again, I'm watching with my jaw open, those swinging hips, really makes you appreciate the female form!
NEWSFLASH Flight of the Conchords are coming to Wembley in May - tickets are on sale Friday, I have reignited my obsession...

xxxxx

Pigeons know how to party

2010-03-07T09:49:00.000-08:00

I snapped this happy little pigeon earlier today, look he's nibbling birthday cake, it's totally like the best day EVER! And I've got a little of that wind in my sails (and that's not just because I had cabbage for lunch) my

Frank Sinatra inspired tribute to Christopher Bailey's LFW Autumn/Winter collection (yes you might say I'm a little obsessed) won a prize on the London Liberty Girl website! Unfortunately we didn't hit the top spot but a LFW Mulberry cotton Tote bag will be winging its way over! Mega! So thanks for pushing me to enter sis, well worth it!

It's the Affordable Art Fair next week at Battersea Park, I've managed to pick up some half price tickets (by walking into a gallery...) so wondered if you fancied popping along next weekend? xxxxx

The Daily Bunny

2010-03-04T11:57:00.001-08:00

Something you and 'the boys' might appreciate - The Daily Bunny
xxx

Sis, its 'ground force' silly !!

2010-03-02T23:55:00.001-08:00

Sister, yes, I saw Marina on J Wos a few weeks ago - she is beguiling and should go far as a front lady. Needs some good songs tho' !
You are right about Self - I know what you mean with his soporific voice, but it was really the subject I was interested in. There is another tonight, so I will be listening !

Anyway, this is another distraction from concentrating on a drawing, rather set of drawings and a dead line ! So, I will leave you with this - my thus far fav show from LFW (I know it is 'so last month')

http://www.richardnicoll.com/ FYI I like outfits 7, 11, 28, 30, 31, 33 & 34. I can't copy any pics so you will have to look !! Its an obvious 'me' choice - manish tayloring with very femine fabrics. Really like it, and hope the very different proportions and shapes will filter down to the high street and into my wardrobe !

Love you sister xxxxx

Quite frankly yes

2010-03-02T13:24:00.000-08:00

Hi sis, been having a listen to Will Self and although I get the gist, well I'm struck by two things
1. His voice warps me into a confused lull (this is not entirely unpleasant)
2. Unfortunately I can safely predict that even after a whole year's enjoyment of 'word of the day' I will still not have such vast a vocabulary as Self - I'm not sure what he's going on about...This doesn't make me thick does it sis? I know Radio 4 is meant to give a little more 'food for thought' but sorry it's a little over my head...Also I do dislike Self's reading voice, he should have learnt the text off by heart and spoke it as a soliloquy with some oomph - he sounds a bit dead.
Sorry
Although yes I agree with the concept of art galleries being our modern day churches, we prey to many different gods these days, the boy to the god of football, you the god of cake and myself the god of America's Next Top Model/Project Runway! No I jest, religion has new meaning and a vast culture - Self sheds light on a fascinating subject, which would be made even better if I the vocab was just taken down a notch, to those with a more modest digestion of the English language.

Any way, here is a fuzzy snap of something I walk past everyday, it was a brilliant bright day today but you wouldn't know it because this was situated in a little basement flat walkway - planted water fountains! They have a little bit of the Garden Force "fill your wellington boots with pansies and muck" about them but only cooler!

Also, did you read Shazia Mirza's column this weekend in the Guardian, reminded me of our dad!

Also current obsession....

unfortunately I'm not sure the rest if the whole album is that great after listening to it over the weekend but she has such fierce deep vocals, there's something quite Tori Amos and Kate Bush about her and I like the cut of her jib!
xxxxx

Do you think we are getting a bit lax sis ?

2010-02-27T14:07:00.000-08:00

Been a busy week for both of us, but no excuses to not keep up the chat !!
Listened to such an interesting piece on R4 this week, Will Self with the first Lenten talk in a seris on Religion and Art. I found it fascinating, only 15 mins, and it'll be gone in a couple of days.... listen ! He talked about churches being originally a place to display wealth and demonstrate taste in all, together with being a place for contemplation. Self argues that art galleries and museums are our contemporary churches - I think he has something !

Ruddy love you sis xxxxxxxx

Burberry blues

2010-02-24T14:00:00.000-08:00

Sis that truly is a lovely scene of warmth and festivity, it reminds me a lot of the Mystery Jet's set up, quite eclectic, messy but with a great sense that's it's home, a cherished space. I wonder how 'effortless' the scene is?
Talking of scene's, these were the stealth shots I snapped for you of the Burberry set up as I jealously walked past on route to work, only a sad sad few steps away.
And you could watch the show LIVE, which I did, except not live but still, with my jaw gaping with the realisation that while I was stressing to complete a spreadsheet at 4pm yesterday, Anna Wintour, Carine Roitfeld, Rosie Huntington-Whiteley, Claire Danes, Emma Watson (obviously)

and Mario Testino (All spotted by me starring intently at the front row) were all lapping up the aviator styles stalking down the catwalk...really puts life into perspective!

So watch and enjoy, its quite long but still I quite fancy Christoper Bailey so its...nice. xxxx

Drool

2010-02-22T11:24:00.001-08:00

Hi Sis,

I love how we are so into completely different things at the moment ! I am dribbling over lovely interiors at the moment. I noticed that there is a new Lonny Magazine (soooo many images have hit my scrap book this weekend) and just found this picture via design is mine by a photgrapher called Johnny Miller. I love the sparseness of his images but the interiors themselves and the general styling is just lovely. I want to live in the pictures !

Mmmm sometimes all I want to do is make things look nice....(heard that before !)

Lots of love sister xxxx

LOVE

2010-02-21T14:09:00.000-08:00

Also sis, i'm thinking on the blazer - will do a proper search this week! I would like a denim dress, any ideas?
I have a new model crush - Lindsey Wixson. I saw her in LOVE magazine's new ad, it's so damn smoking, Katie Grand is the dream isn't she, I heart Grand!

But Wixson, look at those lips! She is like a real life Barbie doll with an over-inflated pout, I flipping love it and as you can imagine with lipstick - breathtaking, just fabulous!

Not as fabulous as you though

xxx

Mannequin

2010-02-21T13:40:00.000-08:00

Hi sis, I've finally responded! It's been a bit of whirlwind weekend and yesterday I felt very much like this saggy tights creation, except as much as I'd have liked to, I don't think our bruv would have appreciated me sitting in me pants on the sofa all day, plus I wouldn't say my tits are reminiscent of a grapefruit, lets mull over that...
Anywho, this is not just a reflection of me after a heavy night, its actually a sample of Stella McCartney's new Liberty's window display. They're excellent sis, I joined in gleefully snapping away with the rest of them, who mostly seem to be men, the image below could explain this. The previous lot was a more romantic flouncy affair but the new set would certainly appeal to your humorous & 'deconstructed' sensibilities! (In this vein; an over sized blazer covering garden tool feet duly noted!)
The tights lady had a hint of Sarah Lucas' dry wit for me, and a bit of "screw it I can't be arsed" except 'she' still opts for the hat and matching undies, even if they are pulled up so far I search hard for Camel toe every time, despite the fact its a rag doll....just loved it, I'm a little ambivalent on what it's actually screaming to me but I'm lapping it up.

Predictably it was weeing it down whilst I had my nose pressed up against the window displays, I don't think this lace brella would be much help but what 'Carry on' British humour Stella's parading! Reminded me of a few festival mishaps, except minus the heels! Excellent!
Looking forward to seeing what Selfridge's London Fashion Week Windows have to offer, its all so Mannequin! Except minus the exquisite 80s bounce in the background. I'll mental note this...

xxxxx

Mission

2010-02-18T04:59:00.000-08:00

Also sister, I'd like a new blazer / jacket for S/S. Any ideas ?

xxxxxx

Food glorious food !

2010-02-18T00:53:00.000-08:00

Sister, LOVE the cake phone, would stop me talking so long on it ! Mmmmmm Fondant fancy. oh where was I ?! Anyway, after you were saying how much you liked Nigel Slaters Simple Suppers, I remembered I was going to tell you about Economy Gastronomy. It was on about the same time in the Autumn. Anyway, Allegra McEvedy is one of the chefs (the other Paul Merrett, they are both just lovely !) and one of the founders of Leon. Anyway, I am a bit late as the link to the Beeb site doesn't have any programmes for you and just a couple of reciepes (there is a book out tho')....BUT she is doing a sermon at the School Of Life in March on Gluttonany - sound like just my thang !
I love this place - there are so many good talks but they get sold out so quick.

Ruddy love you sister xxxxxx

A little of what you fancy

2010-02-17T13:07:00.000-08:00

Well what a glorious day it was today! Apparently its back to the miserable rainy gloom tomorrow but for today let's revel in the glory of a beautiful spring day by listening to this...

Makes me want to cry every time, this version is even worse there's a massive great orchestra and then they bring out the big guns towards the end when the choir chirps up! Well that's me done for the day!
Today's word of the day - hypnagogic; very interesting not sure I'll ever use it but I'm now glad to say I know it well! Loving the Fashion Editor at Large blog, I like her tone!
Have you seen the new chocolate bar shaped phone sis? What will they think of next? I think if it was shaped like a cake, we might be more interested? Here is my interpretation of what that kind of phone would look like...
I know, my artistic skills truly know no bounds
xxxxx

2010-02-16T14:59:00.000-08:00

Well I needed one of these today its been peeing it down so much! (Fabulous lizard-like cape featured in a Trendland number on Issey Miyake).

So yes its been bliss to know I can come home to pancakes and the Brits! I've been so excited about the latter for quite some time and well yet again I'm disappointed! Sometimes it just doesn't feel like they make enough effort - or maybe they're trying too hard? Wasn't too sure on that Cheryl Cole number, Gaga was obviously 'memorable' and gad love her she does deserve the awards. Robbie was off key and Florence has such amazing material why do they cling to You've got the love???? Must say I quite liked Ellie Goulding's hair did you notice? It was a grey blond on top with a more platinum blond below, quite different but subtle, sums her up really!

Anywho, here is my latest purchase, a fabulous suede and leather (I expect its pleather) satchel-esq bag from Absolute Vintage off Brick Lane. I love it, assumed the suede wasn't real and despite all my best attempts to shove it down my coat (protecting it as if it twere an unborn child) I still managed to get some rain spots on it (come on it was bucketing it down!) the boy just laughed, yeah real helpful! Still I don't care, it's going to be battered and loved!

What do you think? I think it cements the fact that we are becoming the same person sister!

That pancake recipe looks absolutely yum! For savoury we had pork in a sticky plum sauce (unfortunately sachet born) with shredded cucumber n spring onion and then good ol' lemon n sugar for afters mmmm batter baby well and truly developed.

A bit of Cat Power is perfect listening for lounging listening to the pouring rain, moping about tarnished new purchases and rubbing a stuffed belly...

Ruddy love you sis xxxxx

oooh so much to tell you .......

2010-02-16T11:21:00.000-08:00

Oh NYC...one day. Did I tell you that weez's boy might have the opportunity to live and work in neaw yooorrrrrrkkkkk ? grr.

Anyway, love the murder mystery theme for the new season collection. I think designers are going a bit more off piste nowadays - with so much being streamed on the internet (especially at London's fashion week) they have got to fight a little harder to get attention as it is so much more accessable to the public. Funnily enough Pa and I were talking about your tickets to LFW and he said why don't they sell tickets and I bought out the usual that it was a commercial enterprise, had to be exclusive and only available to those who either buy or sell the 'wares' (or 'wears' ooh clever sis). So when I was reading The Sartorialist today, I was surprised that he was thinking the same, that soon the catwalk shows will be open to the public and we'll be buying tickets. Not such a strange idea - seems obvious ? So our pa is both ahead of his time, canny business man AND a sartorialist !!

Anyway, I have discovered a new blog sister ...Fashion Editor At Large I really like her writing and ideas - love the bag blog from a few days ago and the Alexander McQueen tribute AND her model crush, Tati Cotliar. I so know what she means. Worth daily checking sis.

Change of subject, I forgot that you didn't have the word of the day link - here. Is brilliant and I get a new word every day - sometimes I know them, sometimes completely new. Good for the grey cells. You'll love it.

Finally, in homage to this truly fabulous Tuesday, a yum yummy yum yum pancake recipe and don't forget to watch the Brit Awards !

Ruddy love you sister xxxxx

Murder Mystery

2010-02-15T12:53:00.001-08:00

Well look at this for an inspirational and fabulously 'indie' way to reveal a new collection - Rachel Antonoff has unveiled her latest looks in the East Village, NY (Oh one day sister) with a murder mystery set-up. Inspired by detectives, Antonoff's models just oozed 70s chic, sporting a youthful breeze of cocktail dresses, decadent silks, pussybows and boyish shorts all topped off with this season's staple; the Brogue. Gorgeous!

Head to Fashionista to see more shots from the show.

(And listen to this whilst you do...)

Now Glee sister, not something I would have thought of as your kinda scene...I would have thought it embodied everything you hate? It does look funny, I just haven't got round to watching a full episode yet, the one episode I tried to watch had their version of Gold Digger and I found it more than a little cringe worthy, and not in a good way - but when I hear the Glee version of Journey on the radio, well it does make me smile! Damnit i've just been watching clips and its made me want to watch more!

Anywho, i've been having a read around for a mini-break for you and Lisbon does just sound wonderful, I want to go! Lots of lovely food, Art Nouveau buildings, shopping, contemporary art galleries and flea markets! (I read about all this here) Lots to fit in but what a wonderful break!

Send me a postcard!

Ruddy love you sis

(Those pictures of the meal are still making me smack my lips, mmm that starter and those burgers! The pudding well, that knocked the life out of us hehe a sugar coma well and trully descended upon us!)

xxxxxxx

Happy Monday Sister !

2010-02-15T00:55:00.000-08:00

Do your stuff....

2010-02-12T08:16:00.000-08:00

Sister,
I know I have asked you this before but with your vast Euro pop knowledge of city breaks, can you recommend somewhere for me and the boy to go in March for a few days - I fancy lisbon as it might be warm-ish - anywhere else ?

AND have you seen 'Glee' ? I have just discovered it - I LOVE IT !!

Wun wabbit wun wabbit wun

2010-02-12T02:30:00.001-08:00

I've just seen that little bunny in the garden again....THIS TIME I MEANT BUSINESS.
I've had a peak around where it darted and there is a ruddy hole !! The little s*£%s. That bunny has had ALL my sprouting broccoli and wall flowers and just about anything else that looks yummy. So, I have shoved a couple of bricks down the hole. They will probably burrow another hole in, but it'll make them think twice about messing with me. humph

Saturday ! Saturday ! is party night !

2010-02-11T11:55:00.000-08:00

Ok sister, FINALLY I am putting up the fun form Saturday night....... there is no point me writing lots about it, frankly the pics say it all.

So, we headed back to your neck of the woods whilst the boys went out and we stayed in with Cazza.

We planned a 5 course meal...not sure it was that in the end ? Well anyway, we started with your apple mojitos which were well lush !

Then the other courses were ......

Fig, red leaf and serrano ham salad -

this was so lush.

And 'My big fat greek burgers'

Then this is what it looked like on the table ! Your table cloth looked lovely.

Ginger helping out

Nice buns

And the pudding, should have looked like this......

Actaully looking like .........

And it went daaaaaaannnnnneeeeeee man........

the sisters wigging out !

It was so nice seeing you sister.....lovely night. Its now time to arrange out big day out in the smoke !! Do it sister ! Do it naaaawwwwwww !

Love you sister xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Country Girl

2010-02-08T03:41:00.000-08:00

Something to cheer us for a dreary Monday lunch - I love this video, she is just having the best time and looks fabulous - don't think i'd wear it myself but she looks wicked! Especially the platforms strapped with warning tape!
I'm not sure it's exactly a truthful image of country girls but I know when I first went to uni people thought i'd never seen alcohol before, perhaps I am more like this 'country girl' than I realise...
Primal Scream - Country Girl

Teach yourself

2010-02-06T02:09:00.001-08:00

Good choice sis, I may have to choose a Monday song, Monday's are rubbish (I won't pick Boomtown Rats - too obvious!). So anywho, I was looking through the old Teach Yourself Dressmaking book ma gave me (its got that amazing old library book smell mmm) to find out how to do a 'Mitred' corner on the table cloth i'm finishing off for Cazza (one year late!). Unfortunately the book didn't cover it, so good old youtube stepped in. But I sat and read through the introduction and it just made me smile to see that a book first written in 1939 could speak of fashion and style as we still do today - nothing changes does it.
xxxxx (sorry I don't have a scanner so the writing isn't as clear as i hoped...)

I heart the weekend

2010-02-06T01:15:00.000-08:00

I love Fridays and Saturdays (who doesn't?). Sister, shall we have a Friday choon post every week ? Anyway, its Saturday morning my favourite time of the week and I am getting ready to see you. I am soo excited, lets boogie !

p.s. my eyes don't deceive me. there is a ruddy wab in the garden. Don't know how its there. I could ruin my garden plans. They hoover everything tasty up !! grr I feel like elmer fudd.

Big box little box

2010-02-04T15:41:00.001-08:00

Ah sis, the bulbs ma gave me are yet to bloom…I have a peak outside to check on them every day, they’re growing but slowly! Show’s who’s got the green fingers in this family, but then that’s why you work with them!
So last night me and the boy went to see Etienne de Crecy's Beats 'n' Cubes at the Koko. He DJs from within a massive scaffold rigged with lights amongst a massive visual setup. If I could compare the visual spectacular to anything pop related (because that’s my bag) it would be this…

except minus the ladies. It was a real feat, except I did feel a little bit dazed by the end! Dirty Vegas were supporting which was lush, to be honest I’d forgotten about them but they were pretty intense and the singer has such a gorgeous gravelly soulful voice live; like it. I’ve been listening to them on MySpace but it doesn’t really do them justice, that and the singer’s tambourine wielding is a sight in itself, him and that ‘rine don’t half get some height!
Talking of height I was stuck behind the tallest man ever all through Etienne, he made the boy look like a bean, I had to jump to catch a glimpse over his shoulder. I had the usual “get to the back mate” jibes whistling through my head, but well we all want to enjoy ourselves don’t we, the boy used to get that a lot so I’ve learnt to accept we all want a good view. At least I had plenty of space to dance, seen as no one else was silly enough to directly behind him!

Ruddy love you - as apparently do the underground staff; getting off the tube today, the guy standing on the platform doing the announcements told everyone “I love you” brought a few grins to the faces of the morning commuters, I wonder if they get told off for that?

xxxx

Bulbs

2010-02-03T00:39:00.000-08:00

More optimism - my bulbs are flowering ! I don't care that they look a mess and are flopping all over the place (the amaryllis beloware HUGE and are tied up with string) but isn't it life affirming to see the flowers coming up in the winter ? Spring is just round the corner now.....

How are yours doing sis ?

xxxxxxxxxxx

Carry on up the duff

2010-02-01T14:38:00.000-08:00

Well sis, I have just read your next blog and well I have responded to your previous so…I will have to mull over your second. Also I was going to write something incredibly unimportant about pens…so I’ll save that for more of a ‘lazy’ day hehehe.

Ah sis I truly am digging this opportunity to harp on atop our soap boxes, why didn’t we do this sooner? I totally agree with everything you said, it’s interesting actually that nowadays basically women can do what ever they want – it’s the men that are restricted especially in fashion and employment. If a woman wants to be a butcher or a builder good on her, but a man wants to be a nanny, well it’s hardly celebrated is it? Boyfriend blazer, boyfriend Jeans, ladies once bored of their own wardrobe can just explore their lover’s. But David Beckham in that skirt, well we all know what we thought. But times are changing; men are getting manicures nowadays what will be next?

Will we see a complete role reversal, will we see this revolution go full circle or as you touched on with women having the power in child birth, will women become completely independent of men?
Although interestingly Scott Moore, apparently the 2nd man ever to get pregnant is due to drop this month, could this spark the beginning of a new balance of power? It’s a pretty queasy thought but could this be the future?

Any who, there’s certainly one woman that we will both agree is a female icon for the now; (even if it is purely because she is so ruddy amazing) Beyonce. Well flicking the music channels the other day I’d forgotten this gem, before Sweet Dreams & Single Ladies was this jaw dropping joy. Who ever has styled her has actually chosen some more flouncy & romantic outfits rather than the norm which frequently leaves little to the imagination.
The sweat in the opening scene, the accentuated gum chews when she’s draping herself over Jay-Z, dancing in the dust and oh all the gloves – it’s a feast for the eyes. This was Beyonce before she became a woman, god I love her.

I ruddy love you more though! (Goes without saying) xxxx

What will happen when she get's pregnant, food for thought? No she will just look even more fabulous, damnit!

Not more !!

2010-02-01T10:57:00.001-08:00

Sis, I will stop banging on about this, but heard a really interesting bit on Womans Hour (can listen to just this item here also) on Radio 4 today about equality of men and women in the workplace - namly parental leave.

Apparently from 2011, fathers will have the right of up to 6 months paternity leave assuming that the female partner has gone back to work. Essentially meaning that the statutory years parental leave could be shared between both partners.

I found this enthralling because following on from my point yesterday about 'women not yet gaining real equality yet, but could they ever ? etc ', a guy called Richard Reeves from a think tank Demos said that there was a real asymmetry between men and women in the work place and there is a risk premium associated with women (since they can have babies and have rights to long periods away from work with their jobs held open - therefore costing business), making it hard for women to compete with men.
He said "what we need is real equality in the division of labour and caring for children and then we might just get close to equality in the workplace."

He put it so simply - only when this happens and there is real choice might women start being equal in the work place. Fascinating.

Is this something you think about ? I am older than you and acutely aware at my age I am one of these 'risky women' - you however perhaps are not aware of this thread in the media yet ? Or are you ?

Food for thought ?

Love you sis xxxxxxxx

Sunday night already ........

2010-01-31T11:24:00.001-08:00

So glad you like your hair cut and the boy too. Sounds like a good hairdresser sis - they are so hard to find. Thinking of going back as I said to that old one I had, she was a bit too fond of thinning my hair out but it always sat right and I got lots of complements from her haircuts.....

Anyway, thanks for posting the vids - I had tears in my eyes watching the Spice Girls again ! It was a memorable performance and so of its time. That was the year that was, what with New Labour etc. It was a strange time wasn't it then ? I think the 80's was defined by money and ambition and the 90's kinda forgot that, almost blasé about what had happened the decade before. Women in the 80's were out trying to 'have it all' and following Maggie, expected to achieve the same as men....somehow that seemed a bit forgotten in the 90's - I might be talking trash but the Spice Girls resembled a new era - girls going out there being girls and still achieving (they were just 5 'girls next door', not particularly talented (ahem), beautiful or bright). We could write a dissertation on Spice Girls and Feminism but they certainly bought something new didn't they ? Other Girl bands were just that, just pretty girls 'performing'. The Spice Girls managed themselves and knew what they wanted - the world ! Unfortunately they weren't all really what they seemed - ravaged by eating disorders and depression, not quite the confident 'own' women image they presented. Maybe we can't actually have it all ? *

I think of Noodles saying years ago that we were bereft of strong female women in the music industry - not since the 80's rock chicks and divas had there really been our fair share of high profile creative women - yes, for sure the cream rises to the top, but there were only a few. I think it took a good decade for women to come out again in force - take the music industry and note how many popular and critically acclaimed female artists there are now. Do think they were inspired by the Spice Girls as little girls like you ?

We live in a very exciting era - personally I am not sure it is especially creative in any way (take another decade and recognise its individuality - aren't we just churning out the old stuff in a Noughties stylee ?) BUT we have more opportunities than ever (both as men or women) to do, achieve or be what we want. There are no excuses. Sure nepotism will give you a head start** but a teeny tiny bit of talent/ skill and a LOT of hard work will get you where ever you want nowadays.

Perhaps this is a little too much of a contrast, but I love this picture from 1910 by Christopher Pratt, Bradford .

From the Guardians' 100 years of great press photographs.
Totally different era - perhaps history at school should contrast our own times with other more readily rather than just outlining the regular time lines and questions. It really isn't that long ago ? Look at these women. It was such a hard time for the working classes and they knew opportunities rarely existed out of that hardship. But look at the friendships and sparkle the women have. They still look optimistic. I am not sure what I am trying to say here but I wish people recognised jsut how far we have come (however, refer back to * !).

Phew, shall I call it a day on this rant ? Anyway, good to remember how optimistic I felt about 1997 - the Spice Girls epitomise that for me. And I still feel that girl power !!

Ruddy love you spice sister xxxxxxxxxxxxx

* We haven't managed it yet, and I wonder that being able to have babies put us at a power disadvantage to men. Are they jealous and distrustful of our capabilties - what can they do that we can't ? So how come we still can't have it all ? Can we ever have it all ? Do we really want to ? Does anyone know the answer ? Not sure I even know the question I am asking.

**Made me sick the other day - Annie Lennox's and Paul Weller's offspring, with an actress, Clara Paget, doing a shoot for Times' Style magazine, showing Charlotte Temperleys new defusion collection. I wouldn't mind if they actually did something, but JUST being a child of someone who is successful ? Have some dignity !

Hairy Moments

2010-01-30T10:36:00.000-08:00

Sister you can look life this (I like the blouse) god she’s a beauty, I want to be her too.
Today, I finally had my hair cut which was actually for once an enjoyable experience. Both me and the boy for once got the dos we wanted – imagine that! And, I learnt that my hair can look Charlotte-esq groomed and bouncy, what’s going on? I didn’t want to throw a bag over my head as soon as I left! The hairdresser explained everything she was doing and even explained the right way to back-comb (an important tool for me!). If you fancy waiting to get your bonce seen to for a few weeks I would highly recommend this place in Clapham, even got a head massage, you’d be in heaven, I was a little uncomfortable…I think I’m like mum in that way!
But well, my stylist; an Australian lovely, reminded me very much of Geri Halliwell. The ginger & blonde was rife, but she looked fabulous with a modest, less cultivated rack! So I couldn’t help but come home thinking of the Spice Girls’ 2010 Brit Award nomination for most memorable performance ever (as it’s the Brit’s 30th).

Oh my, every time I watch this I get a lump in my throat, I don’t know why I just feel so emotional watching it. I still think its one of the best pop songs ever; I don’t think I’ll ever be so affected by another group. And I think they would still be really successful if they were starting out today, they just had something and defied ‘fashion’ by creating their own style. Oh it was love at first sight wasn’t it sis, I know you’ve heard me harp on about them so, and I was so disappointed when we saw them again at the O2, they just didn’t have ‘it’ anymore. Which is such a shame but perhaps these things are best left in the past.
So please enjoy, it fills with so much excitement and joie de vivre as they say, I’m glad they burnt out when they did, I just don’t think I could have coped otherwise, the excitement would have been too much.

But don’t worry sis, I found something for you too…

Ruddy love you xxxx

I want to look like.......

2010-01-29T09:01:00.000-08:00

What an amazing door sis. Art is all around us eh ?

Sounds like you made yet another neighbourhood discovery
yesterday and Science Museum late.

Please schedule date to meet and plan a fabulous itinerary for this country girl.

Off out tonight for my one social occasion of the week with another bumpkin !

So I will leave you with this........

I want my hair to look like Claudias. Sod it, I want everything to look like this.

Ruddy love you sis and have a fabulous Friday night xxxxx

Detour Door

2010-01-28T10:17:00.001-08:00

Hi Sister, sorry I didn’t reply last night I was off out at the Science Museum lates and I just didn’t get a chance, I’m not neglecting you promise! Loved the David Cameron posters - excellent, the boy even sat there giggling with me. I want to know who all the contributors were, I know you get a display name but some of them were excellent! Loved the ‘Tory Story’ one best, with Cameron transformed into Mr Potato head, love it!
Get on your soapbox anytime sis!
Well I’ve been supporting a couple of events this week and I am cream crackered, I feel like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backward. The venue was lovely except the door to the conference room sounded like a woman giving birth, so you can imagine my joy to be free, well for now anyway!
So to chirp me up on my way back to the Pimlico I decided to take a detour and I made some fabulous discoveries. Most prominently Retromania, a charity shop specialising in vintage threads! JOY! It’s a proper rummage shack with antique-y knick knacks, books and old sewing patterns AND there was not only a sale rail, but a £1 rail! Golly, I was in heaven, made a few excellent purchases most notably a lovely gray dogtooth pencil skirt with threads of red, blue & sandy brown running through it, £1! What more can you ask for!
There was an abundance of bakeries & delis as well as lots of little boutique shops for those with more than a few pennies in their purse. Stumbled upon a few more charity shops, and they’re all so pristine with proper good high street label stock – obviously someone other than me watched the Mary Queen of shops charity series! I’m not too sure I’m keen on that though, takes all the fun out of finding a bargainous diamond in the rough. And holding your nose is a small price to pay for a fabulous find!
But aside from the boutiques I spotted this exquisite door, I’m not sure if it’s waiting to be painted or if someone worked really really hard to make it look like this but I just thought it was beautiful. In a street of immaculately manicured town houses this just tipped the balance.

Ruddy love you xxx

Soapbox

2010-01-27T02:48:00.000-08:00

Sorry sis, I am going to be selfish now, but I must show this as it is soo funny. I'm going to be a little political. Radio 4 was banging on about policies and what the Tories were planning on doing. One of their bright ideas is to reduce Inheritance Tax on the rich - just the people who have made from the boom of the last 15 years and then reduce public spending e.g. NHS to claw some of the cash back. Just had a run in with Tory bird here in the office ahahaa. The next few months will be fun ....

Anyway, India Knight blogged this, but I think this is worth sticking back out there. Very funny - you can make you own !!

Love you sis, in a socialist way xxxxxxxxx

Dream a dream of you

2010-01-26T15:21:00.001-08:00

God sister I am such a selfish cow! I devour your blogs like mum with a bag of yum yums (ooh, that’s probably a sore subject at the moment, I daren’t mention doughnuts!) but then I go away and think about them and oh I’ll just leave it at selfish, new resolution – start replies with a response! Have I scolded myself suitably?
Golly I do like a slice of Galliano shaped Dior, I just really love his knack for giving a whole look, the make-up, hair its always so extravagant but the garments always look like they fit like a glove. Don’t think there’s much chance of us getting our hands on a piece of Dior anytime soon but I can always dream about that red satin jacket, it would go exquisitely with that ring leader job I just applied for…oh I jest.

So this evening I have been revelling in a Friendly Fires video fest, I’m so pleased they’ve got a Brit nomination for none other than best breakthrough act. But alas alongside JLS, Pixie Lott and our fave Florence (and ruddy La Roux ginger face… I do love Bulletproof but love; honestly you look incredibly uncomfortable in that crap) I’m not too sure how they will fair but it’s so well deserved.

Lead singer Ed is such a wiggle bum and proudly my new boy crush. He’s got something of a clockwork orange stare on him as he intently stares into the camera but this just makes me think of Chris Martin in Coldplay’s Yellow vid (I do not fancy him) except I always think Chris’s going to dribble what with the rain and emotion etc. Anywho, it reminds me of an article from yonks ago in the Guardian where some female journo was saying how ladies just can’t help loving a man that hangs out in the rain to wring his heart out – it’s all Hugh Grant, Four Weddings and a Funeral or something. Except well Ed’s not in the rain, he’s in a studio or in a dusty hot climate but still let me have my vision.

I just love how he jiggles, he truly is moved by the music and even succumbs to the odd pout at times, there’s some femininity to those swivelling hips, maybe it reminds me of the way I dance, who knows. But he’s totally into it and I can only look on with glee, dancing in my chair.

The band put so much effort into their videos, they are gorgeous visual masterpieces and I really applaud this in a relatively new band, they have such vision. I applaud you boys such refreshing sensitivity and obvious hunger for rhythm, I really hope they’re rewarded!

And like one of my most memorable dreams, 1st year at University, concerning a certain Matt from Busted (god I’m cool) I could start dreaming about Ed…

Jump in the POO

Skeleton Boy

Paris

Ruddy love you sis xxxx

hello ?

2010-01-26T10:58:00.000-08:00

Hey sis, although you have managed to TOTALLY avoid responding to any of my carefully crafted blog on Sunday, I still love you and will comment on your leather wonderings........
you know what. I wasn't far off with that skirt was I ?! You would suit a leather skirt, but it would have A-line and a mini on you with those legs. I love the pencil ones like aggy but its been done now, she managed to get in quick and anything else would a pastiche. We do not do that sis do we ? Well, perhaps sometimes, but this one ain't that good really is it ?

Just a quickie as the boy is going on at me. Just seen this today - Galliano for Dior's new collection - soooooo amazing. I love him, the 40's era, the colours and the cut. Can't wait for this to filter down on to the high street !

And yes, the vintage fest does look really good sis.

Ruddy love you xxxx

Leather lovers unite

2010-01-25T14:43:00.000-08:00

So I saw an example of lady fabulousness on the tube home this evening. You know one of those style/lady crushes when you just think ‘Blimey oh riley why can’t I be you?’
She was wearing a fabulous navy pea coat with huge accentuated cuffs, black pointed zippy ankle boots, and my love affair du jour – a black leather pencil skirt. Yes sister, basically I just can’t get over that electric blue mini skirt you thrust at me in H&M that December whilst we were meant to be shopping for our dear brother’s new lady killer garb.

But heck the problem is I just don’t think I could take the plunge, I morn the days of my leafy green leather jacket, oh I thrashed that beauty to death. I still get a lump in my throat when I think of tossing that treasure into a Norfolk wheelie bin, but there was no way I was letting anyone else get their hands on it. And a jacket is one thing, but a skirt?

I have been scouring the internet for a sensible example, I remember seeing this picture of Miss Deyn (haha remember when you thought she was French!) a while back, sporting this fabulous look except well its all a bit too obvious isn’t it? And to top it off, now resolutely very Aygness.

Fearfully everything reminds me of an old pal’s mother who had quite the penchant for leather – be it on her sofa, on her back or on her buns. I seem to remember a blissfully 80s snap of said mum sporting a rather fetching electric blue (there’s that colour again) biker jacket alongside very Fairground Attraction tousled curls and a pair of huge rounded spectacles. Of course with the spectacles & hair comes Aunty Toots and with the song comes Dad, one of his favourite tunes of past. Well with all these ‘older generation’ types breathing down my neck I just can’t bring myself to dive in. Even with the best intentions the boy will probably stifle his guffaws if I bring one home and thus, it would reside itself to the bottom drawer.

Today’s vision of style; the lady on the tube made me think how I too could wear leather, dressed down and insanely sassy. But I shall reside myself to just look, to think and let my imagination run wild. I will not touch. Repeat ‘I will not touch’ – leather skirts, you’re just not for me.

P.S The boy’s work, well they just keep giving, the summer event, let’s degrade it by calling it a ‘team building exercise’ is a weekend with Vintage at Goodwood. It look’s brilliant, the original adventure festival, and its all vintage – I am probably going to go too, although I will have to fund myself, fancy coming with me? A sister adventure, and you could even bring your boy?

Ruddy love you xxxx

Style and the country

2010-01-24T13:39:00.000-08:00

Blimey, that did get to you. And it was only a side snipe. Finally you have recognised that you do like it a bit 'wrong'. Don't get me wrong sis, I love that you have your own style. I never know whether you really love the outfit you put together or just keep going adding stuff, gilding and gilding. You know in that way 'when you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one accessory off', I wondered that you thought, 'sod it, add two' !! I'm with you in frustration - according to mags like Grazia, you is either 'bang on trend' ( i.e. late to the party), have paid to have been styled (and normally wear MC Hammer pants and woolies at home, and no sis, that is meant to be bad) OR you are 'wrong'. Not individual and creative but 'Wrong'. It's not celebrated if you have your own style. Unfortunately real style icons are oft not appreciated in their time. Maybe that isn't actually a bad thing ? Who really want to be appreciated by everyone. As the Rev says 'most people are stupid'.

I think I'm mostly plain and quite androgynous in my looks - contrasting to your style. I always love that look when you can't really tell if its men's or women's clothing. I prefer a simpler silhouette. I think it can be just as sexy as your 'wrong' look but in a different way. Both are not obvious though - so maybe not so different after all ! I'm not really into that 'pretty' thing - always feels odd on me. I remember the article in Vogue you mean - one woman had an old carpet bag that smelt of old animals and one had weird jewelry and another flowery jacket. I loved that. We all have stuff that has a story and makes us feels good. A bit of history to a piece always makes an outfit / home / garden etc. It makes me feel quite sad actually when people say they want to keep up with trends and high street - I wish only more people were as confident as you with styling their own look.

Anyway, things have been less glamorous at my end. I was really excited to see the first flower in our garden today !! Snowdrops peaking out under the tree !!

As this garden is less than a year old to me, I am still discovering what is coming up. At this time of year, with low sun, short days and little plant life, it is life affirming to see tiny bulbs push up through the cold earth and flower again. It reminds me that it will be spring again soon enough. So, on these long winters evenings, I will be sorting out new recipes from my fav Nig's new tome, writing lists of stuff to grow and ordering seeds !! This piece from Jeanette Winterston is just lovely and makes me remember to enjoy this time of year and not wish my life away.......

Ruddy love you xxxxxx

Wrong - on many levels

2010-01-23T11:15:00.000-08:00

So I was reading Grazia daily t’other day, their Best Dressed list was on bright tights and they were celebrating Mischa Barton’s choice of ‘vibrant hosiery’, a pair of purple tights. But with the praise came a mini snipe at the accompanying wardrobe choice. Of course it wasn’t actually her choice as she was in character for a part as a prostitute for an episode of Law and Order. It was the clash of prints Grazia disagreed with.
Now you know me sis, a clash is something personally I appreciate and well the loud leopard print combo is something that’s adorned the pages of my scrap books for years over. Personally I prefer stripes with animal print but florals, they’ll do for me.
So what am I getting at? Well at first I wondered if my dress sense is that of the stereotypical prostitute, I do cherish my battered gold chain link quilted handbag & vintage faux-fur, as Dolly Parton recently said ‘Even if a brilliant designer creates something great for me, I will tacky it up somehow. I just can’t help it’. This is somewhat my new mantra, I’m not saying I’ve suddenly realised that I shouldn’t necessarily ingest everything magazine’s tell me, that’s no break through. But well it reminded me a Vogue article It’s a love-hate thing (I’ll have to dig it out for you seen as I think its a few years old) where Sarah Harris interviewed 8 women about wardrobe items they love but friends loathe. I’ve had my fair share of this, after all you sis, still despise the aforementioned gold bag, (I won’t mention the white leather one) and Aunty Toot’s pussy bow 80s secretary chic blouse – Eleanor purely described it as ‘wrong’. I’m all for sucking it in, going for it and ‘doing my own thing’, I like the next girl wants to bang out the occasional ‘on-trend’ look but I’m certainly not a prissy try hard.
If Barton was out of character and chose to wear the leopard print, floral & ‘vibrant hosiery’ combo who gives a crap, (unless of course it was a personal stylist’s choice) isn’t she just rocking what she’s comfortable in, what she wants? What is so wrong with that, isn’t this the individuality fashionista’s crave?
I’m sticking to my guns, I adore looking ‘wrong’ this is obviously me at my most comfortable so in your face Grazia! (You may note that the Best Dressed article only has a teeny mention of Barton’s outfit but hey, it cut me deep. Also I love Grazia, but this comment ladies, got on my proverbial tits.

Anywho, rant over I was writing this listening to the lovely Florence and the Machine’s Cosmic Love;

(Mel once described Florence's style as 'Wrong', don't get me started) I love her charge from delicate to bellowing vocals – I have been singing along loudly, much to the boy’s distress. Following a party last night where all the girls rid the kitchen of boys by screaming along to Madonna’s ‘Like a prayer’ I find singing at the top of my lungs (out of tune or not) highly empowering – enjoy.

Ruddy love you xxxxx

Laughed until I cried........

2010-01-21T07:02:00.000-08:00

Hey sis,

Yes I remember you and the rock pools - and the little mermaid cossie ! I'm not really bothered by the whole cartoon thing but I know they are often good when you watch them. Alice in Wonderland looks so fantastical !

Thinking of you tonight and hope lots of people turn up to the 1st meet of book club. Got a right headache today and was feeling a little under the pressure (detailing up a water feature. I am so rock and roll) so felt the need for 5 mins me time. This is soooooooo good. It might even be better than YBF !! Specials Compare the Meerkat
guarrantees tears rolling down my face - hope you like it as much as I do !

Ruddy love you xxxxxxx

Little Mermaid has been wronged

2010-01-20T13:56:00.000-08:00

I just found this 'Part of your world - Techno Mix'...I feel violated

xxx

Charity Shop

2010-01-20T13:38:00.000-08:00

Sis, hope you’re having an early one tonight? Any excuse to get into snoozy heaven! Vogue, beer and bath sounds heavenly except I never have got to grips with reading in the bath, Cazza always does it then end ends up falling asleep, she must lose a lot of books to those murky waters!

Alice in Wonderland looks breathtaking; although I am mega disappointed to see so much computer- generated-frippery…they just can’t leave it alone! I am quite excited about Disney’s ‘The Frog Princess’ – take a look, I know Disney’s not so much your thing but the frog prince’s got a touch of Little Mermaid’s Sebastian, that crossed with Mr Boombastic himself; mmmm Shaggy! Good ol’ fashioned fun! Reminds me of scouring the rock pools singing “Les poisons Les poisons Hee hee hee Hah hah hah” memories! (Haha I snuck that link in there).

So i'm planning for Book group tomorrow, i've collected a nice selection of books covering genres from Erotic fiction to Travel writing - 7 titles at 50p a pop from this amezzin charity shop down the road from work. It's actually called 'Charity Shop' simple but effective! It's a proper jumble sale with everything at a set price, and it doesn't smell of wee! Pleasant surprise, although the clothes looked a bit crusty, so I stuck to the books. I got a little bit excited and must have had about 12 at one point, I reeled myself back in, 12 prizes is quite a lot for a pass the parcel! I shall have to reveal THE star prize tomorrow...can't let anyone get wind of it, it's from Poundland - top quality!

Anywho gotta go, wrapping to do!

Ruddy love you xxxxxxx

pooped

2010-01-19T11:51:00.000-08:00

Sister,
Am shattered. Been on site all day in the middle of nowwhere and not a moment to communicate with you as per. Will make this short as have date with Vogue, beer and bath. The boy out on some high powered business dinner. Or egos & expanding waistline on expenses.

Anyway, excited about Alice in Wonderland (Burton / Bonham Carter / Depp team as per look amezzin) and perhaps you can link this into STALK mag. Check out the trailer.

AND you were asking about good nosh in Brixton - read about rosie's deli cafe.

We can go here next time I pop down to the smoke ? Looks yummy

Ruddy love you xxxxxx